Fertility rant

Hey ladies šŸ‘‹šŸ¼ bit of a rant..

Im completely neglected by my gp , I have complained and now getting bullied and having a fight for anything anytime i try to contact them... basically i would like to get support and testing with fertility sooner than later; the quality control ombudsman said it can take up to 6 months to investigate… I’m 40 in 6 months and cant afford to waste time to get support… who do we get referred to for fertilty? Can i contact them myself? Just at my wits end with fighting…

Aswell as my husband when he asked to get a fertility check at same gp… it took them 4wks telling him he has to have an appointment with gp… to say needs to be referred and that that appointment will take 4wks… i asked him to chase and they were so rude and derogatory on reception and said youve not even waited 4wks… and wouldnt even tell him who he gets referred to or contact details to chase himself šŸ˜”

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Sounds tough, but so relatable… 😩 … depending on which country you live in.

I am originally from Germany, where it s normal for women to have regular Gyno appointments & via your Gynocologist a knowledgeable person of contact for any reproductive issues (in Germany it’s normal to have regular appointments every 3 months or so, for normal check ups, smear tests, early cancer checks etc - without having to be sick or having any issues) - but have also lived in the UK & am now living in Ireland & am shocked at the lack of women’s health care that is provided over here.
I too had asked my GP (in Ireland), how to start fertility checks, and she started googling it with me (no joke) - telling me, she knew from friends, the official process would take ā€œagesā€ (no timeline or steps were known to her) and that I would be ā€œbest off to do my own research on Redditā€ & that I would probably ā€œend up going to a private clinic and pay a few hundred because the system takes too longā€ā€¦

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