Wtf😒 Why kiss us knowing you feel sick?

Unless you had a hand in making that baby, NO ONE should kiss kids. It’s fuckin’ weird lol like don’t put your mouth on my baby, ya’ creep

I hate things like this anyway but my sonsfathers side is the worst for it. My little boy is non verbal and will let you know if he wants to give affection of any kind. We as a family respect it as sad as it may be we respect his space. His dad's side sees him for an hour and a half each Sunday refuse to change his bum but force kisses and hugs constantly

It’s disrespectful and personally it genuinely makes me violently pissed . You shouldn’t be kissing on anyone without knowing their medical history or asking parents first

Not quite the same thing but I've had to have words with my boys nan (dad's mum) she's a smoker and she came in the other day from smoking and tried to take him straight away and stick her fingers in his mouth to touch his new teeth WITHOUT washing her hands. It's absolutely disgusting.

His family just tries and does it behind my back, even when my kids knowingly says no😩 But my kids dad is sick and tries to kiss everyone. Completely drives me nuts

Dad’s family is always like this. We were over a few days ago and his grandma was coughing so bad, then she comes out with “I wish this chest infection would go” like while she’s holding my 8 month old. Ik they have more of an immune system than a newborn but she was hacking right over him. I immediately grabbed my son and left without saying a word. Never put ur kids health at risk all because they don’t understand the boundaries. “Expose them to some germs and it’ll help their system build” yeah no thanks love. Tell them straight, no kissing and even if they have a cold and u are around them then they wear masks and hand sanitation is a must!

I can fully appreciate the older generations have lived through illness and grew up with less concern over things like germs and bugs. But we've had solid 20 30 year gaps in between our educations on raising children and keeping them safe. I really wish they'd respect us when we set in rules regarding OUR children. But if the little ones had a cough or infection they older ones would be terrified of catching it off them and furious at us for letting it happen. We can't win xx

If only! When I say my kids are sick his mom doesn't care and still want to visit to be close to them and in their face knowing their sick. Only to get sick and try to be in their faces after they recovered. Then look at me crazy when I say stay away from her weren't doing a repeat. Like go home she already overstays her visit which I never invited her or them every it always a month and sometimes tries more. I'm over it completely. I'm about to start telling my kids smack anyone in face who tries to kiss you which my older has always done anyway but they don't respect and would always have come save him😩

I would have left to that's crazy! Why would you ever think it's okay to cough over a baby with everything that's been going on. Smh I really can't! Like no one is going to take care of the baby if it gets sick only you will. Suck people don't get their little immune systems aren't as strong as ours even if you stupidly think exposing them will make theirs stronger they will still get sick

I had to go through that too. As well as smoker family members trying to hold my newborn after coming straight from outside smoking. I guess I've signed up to be the bad guy that no one likes because I'm not having it. Makes me so angry! Sorry that happened to you ❤️Please always speak up for you and baby I had to learn the hard way

Oh I do stick up for us for sure. We got invited over on boxing day and one of his family members came down and she had a fever and was really ill so I got up and left. Everyone who stayed got really ill too! I'm always the bad guy too but I'm happy being tbe bad guy if it means I'm protecting my boy

That part! It just sucks because they always come and try to stay our house. I just have to move

I'd be telling them where to go 🤣

If only. The last time they visited he got his family an Airbnb but I'm sure he won't do it ever time

I'd be marching them out the house if they're ill I don't care if they've got anywhere to stay or not 🤣

Right! Definitely if they came sick I would totally say get on. The last time my kids were sick their grandma got sick and tried to stay and play with them I kept asking when she was leaving because by the time she got sick they were better. Like I really don't want his family staying at my house ever. I really don't like guest staying anyway