Hiya,
So I had my daughter 15 months ago I didn't gain weight during my pregnancy just my chin ๐ however when I had her my bump when straight down and I was back ti my normal the day after having her I was wearing jeans and they fit perfect I went to my partners grandma's so they could meet baby as I was sick of being in the house and his mam, aunt and grandma all commented on my weight saying how I lost all of my baby weight I didn't like the comment but didn't say anything I just ignored it and focused on baby but still now they say to my partner how good I look losing the baby weight but I just find it rude and nit a nice things to say as I'm no bigger than I was before pregnancy I told my partner to tell them to stop commenting because it makes me self conscious knowing that they are looking at me like that, they still do it
Is this just me being a bitch or is it wrong?
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Learn more about our guidelines.@Steph I'm definitely nit hinting towards another baby but I just don't feel like it is something they should be pointing out xx
they've asked a few times when are you having another the first time they asked was the first day they met her but they know we couldn't afford another one because this girl is expensive ๐ xx

Wether they mean it as a compliment or not - nobody should be commenting on your body or asking about future children. Itโs not their business. Your partner needs to shut these comments down

Honestly sounds innocent to me. Most people canโt get back into their jeans right away.