This is crazy but expected I guess

So I just found out like 2-3 weeks ago that my bd/ bf was cheating on me with at least two women. One of the women had actually posted anonymously that she was his gf and her stay with her 2-3x out the week . When he was supposed to be at his guy friends . Fast forward yesssss I took him back I know 🙄 I can honestly blame myself for what I’m gonna say next .. Friday night he asks me if he can go get drinks after work with said guy friend because he won’t be able to see him on his bday next week . I said no for obvious trust issues . He tells me he’s going anyway and I told him to stay away and don’t come back . He comes back following night after work and acts like nothing happened. He calls me today while on his break and says this guy friend bought him clothes as a gift for his bday and if he can stay the night and come home in the morning because it’ll be late driving back . Btw we live an hour away . I said another grown man asked u what u wanted for your bday and proceeded to go shopping for you and bought you shirts , pants , and socks etc and u can’t just go pick them up and drive home ? To even ask me again after how I felt the other night baffles my brain . I should’ve known better .

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100% lying to you. There’s no respect towards you. He’s feeding you the most obvious lies and simply walking all over you. Hold your head up and put an end to it. Even if you can’t see it right now, you’re worth a lot more than that.

I’d say leave now. Trust me the longer you hold on the more it’ll hurt. But that’s your decision. I was naive once and I’ve gotten similar advice to leave although that was my decision to make and I regret not leaving sooner. I stayed and it caused me more damage and hurt in the long run. But our situations are different. Only you know what’s right for you. And if you can’t leave now, eventually you’ll build the courage to walk away.

@Lana I’m right with you . I know better . It’s just wild to me. We have 1.5 year old twin girls and we all stay with my dad right now , even my bd and I’m a full time sahm . I’m done , so done . I told him too , he has money , job , car and apparently his new girl has clothes for him so he can stay tf over there . If everyone can have you then I don’t you .

@Asia 21 I’ve stayed for a long time now and should’ve left a long time ago for other reasons. There’s no respect , no trust and he’s doing what he wants against my wishes without a care as to how I feel . I’m done feeling this way . I shouldn’t have to babysit a grown man and dissect his every move I have two little girls to focus on they are my priority.

Fuck him, you’re beautiful and deserve better 🌷

Why do u allow yourself to be this stupid? I’m sorry, but why? Come on girl. Out of everything u chose to be a stupid woman. This guy of yours knows that, and that’s why he is treating u like a stupid person cos this is bullshit.

@Lacey 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

@Adlo I know girl , I think just after being so deeply invested , and the trauma bond , it definitely makes it harder to leave . But you’re right it’s stupid of me to think he’d change , I know better , I thought I was doing everything to keep my family together , wanting to make it work etc but it’s not working lol you’re right about that

@Jezelle Sometimes you need to be tough with yourself because it will allow you to see your situation as it is. Ask yourself who does he think he is to take you for a stupid? Who wants to be a stupid? Cleanse that stupid girl away and become a strong wise woman who WONT tolerate nonsense. Stand tall and be FIRM. Enough is enough.

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