6 month old circumcised

Hi everyone

We got our 6month old circumcised it will be day 3 tomorrow. It was very traumatic for myself and for him, his behaviour has changed like more scared and just feel an overall sense of trauma from him I feel awful. Did anyone else get there baby done at this age what was the recovery like? Did they go back to there self’s?

Also I am breastfeeding does it affect the mother and baby bond?

Thanks.

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It takes about 3 days for all the pain to go away, and he will be none the wiser. Honestly it’s worse for the parents. My son had it done and I wish I didn’t go to the appointments. Now he has a perfect pee pee :)

it’s awful isn’t it how old was yours when he got it done? I wish my days could go faster

I went through it with my little one at 8 months old and it was perhaps the most traumatic experience for the two of us. He cried his lungs out for almost the whole procedure and on top of that he had to be held the whole time. If anything please don’t stop breastfeeding if possible as that continues to be his safe place specially after something so traumatic.

The recovery wasn’t too bad for my baby and at some point was staring to get a mild infection but we got it under control right away. I failed to use a lot of vaseline (I then switched to earth mama diaper balm which was wayyyy more natural and helped with the healing in a much better way) so to go crazy on it is fine, so you don’t risk having to go back to the Doctor to detach some skin again, which is not as bad but still painful and uncomfortable.

same I think I feel more traumatised then him I can’t stop crying. I feel awful. And same he was numbed before but if it was effective why cry so much? I don’t plan to stop he hasn’t detached from breastfeeding which is good

I’m glad your recovery went well and hope mine will just speed up

My baby was three weeks old when he had it done :-0

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Not sure what’s wrong- 5months

Has anyone experienced any of the below problems with their baby?
He’s always a happy baby so this is completely not him. He’s a terrible sleeper but now it’s worse, if it could.

He’s was EBF but now on formula for the last 2 weeks. 2 days in a row now he’s vomitted a lot of milk out everywhere in the evening and just before bed.
For example I was walking around the room with him around 18:45 and it just came out of no where everywhere.

He’s very miserable and takes ages to get to sleep. Crying lots.
He’s been dribbling a lot, flushed one cheek but I can’t see any teeth coming.

All night he just won’t settle in his cot. Sometimes just starts crying hysterically and I can’t settle him at all.

A very tired mama.

Any advise on what it could be?

Help

My 5 week old is always up from 1am every hour grunting and squeaking and just won’t sleep. I end up having to bring him with me and I’m worried I’m creating a rod for my own back. I’m exhausted. First half of the night he’s okish. But from 1/2 it’s absolute hell. He farts a lot then as well but I just dunno what to do. Last night was the worst it’s been.

When do I drop the dream feed?

14 weeks old currently has last awake bottle at 7pm, then is asleep by 8ish downstairs.
Carry her up and she usually stirs so ive been giving her 5oz dream feed.which she drains
Then she is up at 2-3am for another feed and goes back down till 6/7am ish.

When do I up her oz bottles throughout the day and drop the dream feed?

She currently has 5oz bottles..80% of the time drains them, sometimes only has a little snack

Weaning

My mil keeps making digs to start weaning my boy… he’s 4months I politely told her I’d like to wait 6m but she’s like oh it just helps them sleep longer and my son had his at 4m🙄

Side sleeping baby!

My little dude is 4.5 months old— he sleeps the best when he is on his side and when we pat his back. Whenever he shifts or moves to his back, he is much more likely to wake up (he’s already not sleeping much these days😅)

Do any of you have any suggestions for what works best for your little side sleepers to stay on their side? Or any items you use to help pat/move them overnight so you can also sleep?😅 TIA!

Burnt out.

Will my child EVER sleep thru the night again? My now 10 month old has been waking up for the past month I believe 2-3 times a night, he has been unwell the last few days and prior to that he was up. I was co sleeping didn’t really help so anyone who asks if I’ve tried that, there’s the answer 🤣

He does have teeth coming, I have been giving teething gel and massaging, singing, comforting, feeding thru the night. Tonight he got up and was just whining like not even crying, he noticed the cot mobile and played with that. I got up to make milk bc I can’t carry him and do anything now, he’s heavy! He started screaaaaming, I got him and just sat on my bed, it’s one of the reasons I’ve been struggling a lot mentally bc I’m just SO TIRED from disturbed sleep, it makes me so snappy and ugly. Does it get better? He was such a good sleeper straight thru the night from 4 months old if I remember correctly, I just need at least 7 hours straight man. It’s getting to a point where I’m doubting myself if I’m even built to be a mum bc why is this so frustrating he’s my child and I’m supposed to be his safe place 😞💔