I am 3 months postpartum. My relationship with my boyfriend changed, we don’t have sex like before, much less and I don’t feel like it and he is the same way. He cheated in the past and couldn’t go long without sex but he said that our daughter changed him and he doesn’t even think about that. So I decided to trust him even though I can’t stop thinking about it. On the other side he always asks about our daughter and rarely cares about me. Am I selfish for wanting him to talk about us sometimes and not only about parenting? I love my baby so much but I since he works away from home and comes on a weekends only, I feel like I am for him only someone who is raising our child. Am I selfish? I just want us too, not parenting only. If someone has experience, does this change with everyone once baby comes? Thank you!!!!!
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Honestly it's all about finding a new balance & routine as a family. He's probably adjusting as well. If someone is able to watch the baby, you guys should plan date nights.