I have a 9 month old an a 2 years old I’m with my 9 month olds father since the 2 year old was 4 months now the last 9 months the 2 year old has not sit the baby he’s very gentle and sharing with him well today the 9 month old learned to move around the last 2 weeks so he took the toy from the 2 year old n for the first time the 2 year old hit him and the 9 month olds dad got up grabbed up the 2 year old and screamed at him before I even got a word I I took the 2 year old away from him and said don’t u grab him like that or scream at him like that now everyone says I gentle parent because I don’t believe hitting or anything like that when my 2 year old does something wrong I explain to him he can not do that that’s bad or u can hurt someone if u hit then u give boo boos and always sit him in a chair or on the couch for 2 min (since he’s 2) and after I have him give hugs and kisses and say sorry the way he grabbed the 2 year old makes me no longer want to leave him with either child alone and he didn’t even try and apologize about the way he yelled and grabbed him
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That is certainly NOT OK to do to any child. Let him know how you feel and set boundaries
I tried talking he’s said I said I’m sorry and I said okay just don’t let that happen again his response was well what were u gonna do just say u can’t do that