Am I the only one not having sex?
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No way, I'm so so tired and my c section scar is not even healed properly. We're both fine with it, the time will come!
With my first I had sex pretty quick hence getting pregnant so quick again 😅 however this time it’s the last thing I’m even thinking about. Which I think is actually more normal. We’ve slept in separate rooms before my first even arrived as he snores and has sleep apnea so when I was pregnant I genuinely felt like I could have murdered him at times so it worked for us to sleep separately however it didn’t effect anything else except I was a nicer person to be around 😅
The thought of sex makes me want to vomit 😂
I do wonder what he does in the other bedroom by himself. I'm okay but I'm sure he still has a sex drive that isn't being met. I haven't gone back on contraception yet.
Yeh I’m not stupid my husband still pleasures himself and watches porn which I have never had an issue with. As long as he isn’t having sex with anyone else I’m not fussed just because I’ve lost my sex drive I don’t expect him to feel the same but I’d also not want to feel pressured into it because he wants it.
No sex for me…even if the baby falls asleep early, I’m too concerned about wasting precious sleeping time myself to be having sex. What if we’re expecting her to sleep through the night and she ends up having me up every hour and I’ve wasted potential sleeping time on sex?! I could never forgive myself
I havent im 10 weeks and refused stitches so it has taken a little longer to heal and still feels sore every now wnd then but because my daughter still has a love hate relationship with her next to me cot i just want to sleep when i can
No, I can't even imagine it. I'm 8 weeks post partum and still not fully recovered down there, but even when I have recovered, I feel like it'll have to be when someone has her for the night because otherwise there's just no time that it'd work
No sex here. Neither of us are feeling it but that’s okay, it’ll come back
Absolutely not, the last thing I want right now is sex. Our almost 9 week old is hard work and never sleeps so we wouldn't even get a minute🤣 x
No sex here either. I’d love to but didn’t get contraception in place until 7 weeks PP and then a week later my period arrived 😅