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Totally . There’s not just rights but also duties . So if he wants to have the right to see the baby he also need to stick to the duty of pay for your baby needs

hey just messaged xx

Also like… she doesn’t know him? Who the hell is out there sending their kids with people who are strangers to them? He needs to not only pay child support but commit to being more present and consistent and prove that he will be first before you allow your child to get attached to him.

I agree . There’s no amount of money for letting my child stay with someone that doesn’t know him . And the fact that a person is biological parent , doesn’t mean that know my kid

I don’t even think it’s a money issue but just being a knob issue - like she doesn’t even know him and now hr wants to come into her life? No time for inconsistency!

she knows her dad she just haven’t seen him she’s 4 btw

yeah money isn’t the only issue it’s just the inconsistency

father is someone that is taking care . if he’s not even bothered about how the kid is eating , getting dressed ecc .. I don’t think that’s using the baby as a weapon . It’s just that they cannot have rights if they don’t want to have duties

did you not read the full post? it was me being sarcastic… but he isn’t getting her because i don’t trust him and he went MIA

idk, I don’t think she’s wrong. The father isn’t just meant to see his child while doing nothing to help financially/emotionally raise his child. Not to mention he disappeared on the mother for 9 months. If the shoe was on the other foot, meaning if this was your situation you’d immediately be ok with the father popping up outta nowhere to just see your child?

If she hasn’t seen him in 9 months she doesn’t know him…

are you confused? Tf? Using her child as a weapon for money? How tf did you get that from this post? 🤡

I'd tell him to visit the little one at his moms and work that out w her instead of even dealing w him

when she sees her dad she knows who her dad is she’s 4 not 9 months

I don’t blame u I’d ask for money to and see what he says …that’ll be the start to see if he really cares about his child cuz when most men hear money they run. Men think they can do whatever they want, treat people however and then demand something that’s what I call outrageous. This is equivalent to a man who wanted to get an abortion but the women/mother decide to keep it n now the father wants to demand to see a child that wouldn’t be here if it was up to them. FOLLOW YOUR GUT AND DONT FEEL BAD!