Is porn really cheating?
I went snooping in my husband's phone and I typed in a common porn site he would visit and it came up. He has told me he doesn't do it but I've caught him coming home from work and that shit is on his phone. Full on hardcore porn. I wouldn't have found out if I just stop going through his phone. I'm almost to the point of fuck it, just watch your porn. I already told him how I feel, countless times but I'm just done with this grown man jerking off to porn when he should be working remotely from home. One time he had watched porn the whole fucken day instead of working and I come home to tissues full of cum in the bathroom trash, he's so obvious at times. I am nosy too. I need some advice. Good or bad. :(
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Corn…. Maybe you can ask him if he’d like more excitement in the bedroom? Like role play? If there’s any fantasy he wishes to fullfill and then do your best for him while also getting in touch with ur kinky side I’m sure that’s all it is. Although an obsession like not working and jerking all day would be a problem for me. But I’d try the first option and record it lmao so he watches yall instead of the corn
I don't think porn is cheating, but the addiction surrounding it can be highly problematic
I don't feel porn is cheating but it makes me feel awful
Porn has become extremely normalized but that doesn’t mean it should be. As someone else mentioned, it can become very addicting for people. If you are in a relationship with someone and you both are okay with it, then no it is not cheating. But if you are communicating that you are not okay with it & they are continuing to do it, then that is an issue. I personally don’t like the idea of my partner getting off to another woman and I asked if they would not watch porn and he was immediately understanding and stopped it all together. It is not unreasonable to feel uncomfortable and dislike your partner getting off to people who are not you. If you have continuously communicated this and he has told you he won’t but still goes behind your back and does it, he does not care about your feelings. You should not feel like you have to say, “fuck it and just watch porn.” Your feelings are completely valid and no matter what other people feel about porn, if you do not like it, he needs to stop.
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