HOW COULD YOU?!

Idk from the little face I see she look like she looks like him so idk why he’d asked for a dna when she clearly looks like him. Maybe he’s trying to be petty?

i can definitely see from this photo that she looks like him, that’s so heartbreaking for him to do that to you, could he have been pressured by in laws? i know in laws pressure a lot and demand things like paternity tests, but then idk his family life xx

he just wants the dna test is just to drag out court. sorry this is happening to u it’s a long process and expensive 👎

I honestly dunno what’s wrong with men..mine said one evening his mother said our baby boy looks nothing like him when he was little or now and he said maybe it’s not ours and we should do a DNA test.Our baby is IVF that’s even more stupid.

its just disgusting even if its to drag out court he should feel ashamed and that’s probably why he wont talk to me. That is petty af to do to your kid just to save your ass from paying to help your child out 🥺💔

i dont see his family pushing dna test because they love that she look like him. and his mom use to send me baby pictures of her and her and my daughter are twins and she always says it when she sees Isa , she came out all him not my skin tone, not my curly hair just my eyes maybe and definitely my nose and smile but everything else is him and he always repeated that. thats his twin so i feel its to drag out court but thats still petty af doing that to your kid just to save u time from paying just to help with her ( your daughter!) and she is turning 3 smfh

exactly what i was thinking but that is still petty because your doing that to your kid just to save yourself from giving money for your kid and then not even speaking and fine with not seeing her for a month. im so broken for my babygirl because she loves him and omly gets one day with him and he sucks at helping provide for her

men now are just disgusting to me smfh huge disappointments. im so sorry that is happening to you and your baby

My bd did the same with our first child support appt. I was highly upset and he did it to spite me. 😅 drove 2 hours to hear that.
He’ll always reap what he sows, and that goes for all of them.
At the next appt, he was ordered to pay 600 and he was not happy about it 🥳.

I love that for you! I’m in the process of doing the same .

you have every right to feel the way you do . I hope everything goes in your favor fr.

they have the same eyes

she’s literally a spitting image of him. He probably either was talked into it by his parents more like forced with how he was acting or to drag it out. Either way it’s an azz move to make. I’m sorry he did that to u but once results come back he’ll looking like an idiot

sometimes if he has a lawyer they will tell him to do a DNA test, it delays the process longer and he won’t have to do backdated payments if there hasn’t been a DNA test, it’s all about money, it’s shit and it’s a bunch of rubbish and unfair on your daughter, but legally without the DNA test he can argue that she isn’t his and he isn’t paying, and if he has paid anything it can be reclaimed. i had a friend go through it and they refused any CSA until she had a DNA test done on her daughter xxx

Let him ask for one if that’s what he needs to get to feel validated
What a lil princess you have 💕

Girl be strong these men are WILD

right!! and no he is 30 he is a grown man living with his first bm so i feel like he did this either out of spite or to drag the child support but it still disgusting to do to your kid. your like throwing her under the bus just to save u from paying to provide for her smh

yea someone but not lawyer cus he cant afford one. But he knew once we dont have dna test they will have to reschedule because there is multiple hearings before us so he seen alot were getting rescheduled cus some didnt show up or some request dna test so he just follow the leader but fucked his daughter over smh

since h requested and they rescheduled until may 22nd then i told him until then u cant see her because you dont deserve her but thank you

thank you! it just hurts me alot because i dont play about my baby and to request something like that is so low but im leaving it in god’s hands

Girl that does suck but don’t be bothered by it, regardless you know she is his and he’s still going to end up having to pay child support to help you raise your beautiful daughter. As long as he pays for it since he requested it and make sure you add everything in the child support needed, extracurricular expenses, medical insurance, etc. I don’t know how it is in other states but where I live since I requested child support it was just mandatory to do a paternity test and the process didn’t take long at all. Let him go be less of a man with his BM…you’ll find someone that’ll give you more than you ever expected one day and he’ll love you and your daughter. Good luck, you got this!

Thank you 🩷 Honestly if the chikd support is low im going to cancel the whole case and just cut him off because it isnt healthy for my daughter she has to see her half sister with him 24/7 and no dna test given but my poor baby that gets only saturdays with him and hates it so much it just has me hurting for her and i dont want her with a complex so im just doing alot of thinking while i keep her with me for the next month or two until the next court date

its hard not being bothered by it. This isnt doing anything to me but my kid. and i dont play about her and having to watch her mouth get swabbed and my mouth has to get swabbed i get mad all over again. Im dealing with enough and i thought he finally had my back and we were a team coparenting and he kept saying he fine with CS but then to hear him request it. and my family is not even defending him like this usually do they are shocked and hurt for my bella to 🤦‍♀️ so im emotional af about this ! and cant help but be bothered

I personally think everyone should get a DNA test for every child so I don't think it's that bug of a deal.

girl what ? Lmao I wish my husband would dare come to me and told me he wants a dna test done 😂 he’d be divorced the next morning. My marriage is built on trust so if he doesn’t trust me and ask me that dumbass shit then it’s a dub. But that’s just me though

fr lol 😂

sending you nothing but positive vibes . Stay strong you got this

it's not about a trust.

My husband knows 100% that our kids are his but he wanted DNA test done so he had more than just his name on a birth certificate (since that incorrect)

It's added protection and reassurance, doesn't have to be a negative thing.

asking for a dna test means he thinks u had sex w someone else so yes it’s most definitely about trust cause clearly he didn’t trust that you’ve only been with him.

But to each his own. I just know if my husband ever dare ask me for one our marriage is over.

oh girl :(( it’s so shit, i hope you and youre daughter are okay! you’ll come out the other side of this stronger than ever xxx

my husband told me he wanted a DNA test on all of potential children when we first started dating when I was 17.

I saw no problem then didn't see a problem when I was in my 20s having his babies each to their own.

bye TERRA 😂

thank you❤️🙏🏽

THANK YOU JODY!!!!

thank you for every word !

girl ur husband doesn’t trust u. I’m sorry.

I’m sorry girl. And wat said. After my daughter was born I messed with my husband cuz he said why is she so white 😂 so I told him she wasn’t his he didn’t really believe me tho even to this day I still mess with him and say she’s not his and I’ll b dead serious when I tell him. He has never asked for a dna test even with me telling him because he “trust” me. If any man is asking this then ya they don’t trust u.