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Baby Daddy Drama

Hey Momma’s Need and ear

Iv always waited to have a baby First time mom aged 33 . In the beginning I didn’t think I wanted children but as I got older I thought I would regret not having but never regret having a baby. My relationship with my partner is really good when it’s good ; great prospects and works well but when it’s not it’s Not !
Today is my first Mother’s Day our son is 10mnths old and iv spent it alone with my son

two days ago my bf’s phone was going off and I looked. There were no messages I can admit that but he had been adding random girls online - We have discussed this in the past multiple times so he is fully aware about my stance on this - It crosses my boundary. since him realising I looked at his phone because I made it a point I know what he’s been doing I haven’t heard from him
And today nothing at all no message text or nothing he’s been working away for the past couple of days
He works away 90 % of the time now due to a career change
I guess I don’t need advise just someone to understand how I feel
How does someone treat someone like that I’m not asking for gifts or anything no call or even a text after you doing wrong!
Was I wrong to look at his phone?
I am fully transparent with everything,


Now I’m sitting here thinking did I make a wrong choice having a baby with someone like that. Where do I go from here ? …


Ps during the week prior to going away for work he gave me a card
I opened it and tbh I felt saddened buy the card it was more of a jokey card and the words inside were limited
Just makes me feel like my first Mother’s Day has been tainted I expects more heartfelt meaningful thought to the first day of celebration as a mom
And to top it off not even a call or text on the day?!