Emotionally Exhausted

Please let me know when you have the answer cause I'm in the same boat 😅

@Katie same:)

Me too 😭 and pregnant with his baby. I think about things constantly even comes up in dreams. It’s exhausting 😞

@Simmi I want to hear everyone's stories like let's all vent

@Cat let's all vent what's your story?

for all mummys that were in the position i was a month ago! (feeling stuck, can’t move on, can’t get over the pain and hurt and can’t stop thinking about them/how they did me wrong) closure will not come from an apology, or recognition of their bad behaviour. closure comes from their disrespect, inaction and pain they caused you. closure comes from knowing your soulmate would NOT fuck up your mental health, they would only add to your peace. they knew what they were doing would hurt you, and yet did not care to stop/not do it. find peace in knowing someone A LOT better is out there. more gentle, more kind, loyal beyond any doubts, charismatic, handsome etc. once you let go, i promise you that the peace is unexplainable and incredible, and that feeling of being emotionally exhausted will be gone! pour into yourself, give no more time or thought for the deadbeat! 🥰🥰

Been there!!! Done that!!! It took me over 20 years to do this!! They will keep hurting you over and over again if you let them. I still have a hard time when thinking about it. Here if anyone wants to vent.!

Apology or closure will not necessarily give you peace as their “words” may just bring up more issues and gives them a way of manipulating the situation even more. It will take a lot of courage to admit and say enough is enough, you deserve respect, you and your child deserve better and you can find and create your own peace without the headache that is your BD.

😭 girlsssssss why do we do this to ourselves

I feel like the best closure is knowing your better off with out them, I never got closure from my ex and I realized I never need to hear anything from him cuase leaving and ignoring him was the best way since I'm way better off now then I was with him I no longer am forced to only eat once aday cuase I'm to fat 😒 he got with me knowing I wasn't a skinny Minnie and that I worked hard for what I have now and it way better then anything he could of done for me even thou I was alone , I felt better after leaving

Currently going through the same thing with my baby’s father too 😢 he was very controlling and emotionally abusive throughout my whole pregnancy

@Katie I met my BD in January last year he seemed like the best person for about a month and a half. I lived with my mom and she was moving so i decided to move in with my bf at the time and 3 other roommates. I was sober from alcohol for a couple of years (i was 19 at this time) and all they did was drink and do drugs so i started drinking again and it felt amazing and then he offered me a line of coke and i did it and after that first line i knew i would be doing it again. the first night i moved there one of the roommates had shrooms and my bf did them and he was also on coke and drunk and he thought i was flirting with someone (i was not) and that was the first time he threatened to hit me. i figured it was all the drugs it won't happen again. let's just say he was a bad drunk and yelled at me, called me names, got in my face, threatened me, spit at me, threw cigarette butts at me, threw my belongings, gaslit me, hit me, and just everything in the book.

@Katie i left him before i found out i was pregnant and then he went to jail for his 5th DUI and when he got out he realized it was his kid and he's in a sober living and wants to be a part of my baby's life. although he doesn't hit me and all that he is still emotionally abusive and yea. i'm trying to push him out before my son gets here because i don't want someone like that around my baby. i won't have it. but it sucks that i have this trauma bond to him and i don't know how to break it