4 months baby food

Hi did anyone feed their 4 months old already some baby food and is there anything that helped with baby doing longer sleep stretches at night as I cannot feel I can keep breastfeeding with all the sleepless nights going forward. Did baby cereal help and if how did you prepare? Or what kind of food did you give the baby?

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I started baby food closer to six months but I found that he slept better/longer with formula

Have you tried supplementing some formula ?

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You could try pumping and feeding from a bottle for the final bedtime feed then you know how much they are getting and that they are full … maybe your baby is falling asleep before being full … I’ve pumped and fed from a bottle since 4 weeks and she sleeps really well but I give her extra just before bedtime (around 200ml) she’s 5 months x

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I started with baby rice and purées at 4.5 months but it hasn’t made a difference to LOs sleep. She still breastfeeds every 2 hours during the night

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They aren't ready yet..
Until they can sit up unassisted you don't do any solids.
I know night feeds are hard but maybe pump and let someone else take a turn. I learned to nap during the day too

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Sleep is mostly to do with temperament and not to do with starting solids or having formula instead of breast milk. And really, when they start solids sometimes sleep gets worse for a bit because it’s a huge adjustment for their digestive system.

If you did decide to give cereal please remember nothing should be added to a bottle so it would be offered on its own.

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There is no correlation between starting solids and better sleep, usually the opposite in fact.
4 months is too young, all they need is milk.

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I started baby led weaning at 4.5 months. He’s 4yrs old now and eats everything. He’s not picky at all and enjoys helping cook and prep meals with me. His very first food I gave him actually was a sliced avocado. He mostly smooshed it in his hands and played with it which I highly encourage. Let them play with their food and make messes. Worry about table etiquette later.

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My baby started eating food early because he was ready and the doctor okayed it, it has nothing to do with sleep! Also please don’t feed bubs baby cereal!

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I did solids at 6months. Tried formula once or twice to see if she'd sleep longer, nope. Tried baby cereal in breastmilk bottle, no dice. Puree in a bottle, nada. Babysleep is developmental.

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i started my little one on some baby food around 4 months too, and honestly, it was a game changer for us! i just mixed some baby cereal with breast milk to make it smooth, and it seemed to help with longer stretches at night, but every baby is different, ya know? just go with what feels right for you! Just looked it up on the 'Heal App' and here's what it says:

"It's common for parents to explore introducing solid foods around 4 to 6 months, but it's essential to consult with your pediatrician before starting. If you decide to introduce baby food, start with single-grain cereals like rice or oatmeal mixed with breast milk or formula to achieve a smooth consistency. Some parents also begin with pureed fruits or vegetables, such as bananas or sweet potatoes, which can be gentle on the stomach.

To help with longer sleep stretches, consider establishing a consistent bedtime routine and ensuring your baby is well-fed before sleep. Some parents find that introducing solids can help

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