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Baby Daddy Drama

Post separation abuse

How have you ladies handled post separation abuse and harassment. Dealing with bipolar-like attempts to reel me in-one min it’s ‘I love you and miss you-come and move 3hrs away with me to a new area’ then ‘you’re an unfit mother I’m reporting you to social services’ then ‘fine you and baby have a good life-I’m out’. I’m so exhausted and on an emotional rollercoaster, it’s affecting my mental state, feel miserable at times and struggling to emotionally be present for my 8month old. I’ve had to block him on everything today but I hate having to go that far-I wish he could just show a little accountability and show up as a father for her. Instead of making me out to be an abusive parent for anytime I’ve sneezed out of line or refused to do contact at his house due to multiple DV incidents from him. His parents have overlooked all of the abuse I’ve informed them of and told me they would be willing to facilitate contact at their house when they aren’t too busy provided we ‘both’ keep a calm atmosphere like I haven’t been telling them for years how he has been increasingly bullying me. I feel so unsupported and like I’m being schooled for ‘fighting’ when they know full well about his narcissistic abuse as they too have been subjected to it, his previous partners and children have all suffered.