Constant cheating accusations

I am in a 11 year relationship and have a 4 year old and my other half who now doesn’t believe in marriage and is constantly accusing me on cheating him. I just came back from a work trip and he never even said he missed me just accused me of cheating on him the whole trip and when I came back. I didn’t cheat on him and wouldn’t but going to work and even when I go the gym he says it. I love him but it’s making me miserable and a gut feeling he is doing something on me. Has anyone gone through anything like this
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I feel like those who accuse u of it non stop are the ones cheating

Feel like he’s got a guilty conscience and is projecting

@Nicole spot on

Classic projection my bbd was cheating on me with his ex our entire relationship (then later added on about 6 others) and he did this constantly!!

He’s cheating on you.

My ex did this all the time to shift the fact he was the one having an affair. Hence why now he is an ex I was fed up of being accused all the time so told him if he thought I was that bad why the hell was he sticking around and told him to get out my house a week later I found out from his sister what he had been doing for a year and half with my supposedly best mate 🤣

Accusations are confessions in disguise far too often.

@Nicole I agree, because the ones who accuse the most seem to be the ones always fast in a different relationship suddenly after breaking up

My bf does this. Swears it's for his protection and self conscious (he's been cheated before) So if whatever reason it were to happen, he "wouldn't feel so hurt about it" Which it's still annoying and I blow up here and there cause it's "sancho" this "sancho" that Sancho meaning side piece

He's cheating 😞😑 or he's refusing to heal from past trauma

This was me. Stayed loyal to him whole 5 years yet he accused me of cheating the whole 5 years. It is very very draining and I wish I never got in a Serious relationship when he did it for the first time a few weeks into the relationship but I thought I could fix his insecurity with my love and spent 5 years being accused over the most silliest of things. He won't change darling. Save ur sanity. Leave him.

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