I’m so done!

I don’t even know how the day went like this, but I’m truly disgusted the way this man treated me. This man is a narcissist that needs to stay away from me and my child. He had the nerve to put his hands on me while my baby is watching and wouldn’t leave unless I called the cops. There’s no forgiving I don’t want to put his ass on child support I just want him gone. He knows I’ve dealt with DV before and this shit just triggered me and brought all my trauma back. I now have to figure out child care for the day so I can go to work, I just don’t feel safe with him being around me nor my child. I honestly want to move back home to protect her so there’s no contact. I feel so stupid and lost

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You don't sound stupid to me, you sound incredibly strong, aware and determined. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, not for the first time 💜 the fact that your immediate reaction is that he needs to get the fuck away from you and your baby says that you've got your priorities right. Are you able to move back home?

@Lauren yes but my mother is in the middle of moving so it makes no sense at the moment. I’m just waiting for her to tell me she’s ready to go and we going. My resume is pretty strong I’ll find another job I just refuse to have my child witness this again. But it’s also like what if he goes to court to try to get visits that’s my worry

It's good that you have a plan! I have no doubt you'll be able to keep yourself and your baby safe 💜 I guess my only advice would be document everything, no matter how trivial. I'm not really sure what to say otherwise but best of luck with everything, I really hope you manage to get yourself to a place of happiness and safety 💜

Listen if he gets visits they won’t give him overnights due to the abusive history

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