So fed up

I have a 4 year old with my current partner and he has a nearly 7 year old already with his ex. He told me he did all the night feeds, day feeds and the full care for his first child.. I thought great so I’ll have a really hands on parter!! Loool yeah right that man did fuck all for our daughter not 1 night feed, day feed or a nappy change!! I got used to it and when my daughter turned 3 I got pregnant again.. best believe NOW he’s doing night feeds! Nappy changes and being a parent!! He called me controlling because I stated if I can’t walk out that front door without a toddler and a newborn best believe you are not either unless you go to work or it’s an emergency.. tell your little friends you’ll see them in a few years hun you’re being a present and CONSISTENT dad for your kids! If you want a break you HAVE to ask your mum to baby sit.. just like I have to 🥰 he’s fighting for 50/50 for his first child with his ex and I literally serve him 50/50 on a platter and he’s acting like I’m being mean ☹️ poor man bless him. Don’t agree yo have kids if you want to carry on acting like a single man with no kids.

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I'm sorry boo he lied to get u to have a baby with him so other guys wouldn't look at you from what I assume , I maybe wrong but he doesn't see what he has till he loses it

I’d be interested to hear the ex’s side of things. Find it hard to believe he did all the feeds for the first child.

@Lana he didn’t lets be honest, not even sure why he lied about it either ffs but his ex does not like me from the get go unfortunately so I can’t even ask her but I think we have come to the conclusion that he’s a liar 😂

I agree with Rhiannon’s comment!! He 100% lied to baby trap you lmao. If he had been honest that his ex did everything, you’d have maybe considered termination so he 100% lied to make you have this baby. It’s honestly so gross it’s almost normalised that the mother should take on all the responsibilities with childcare and I find it so strange. Like he created half that child therefore has half the responsibilities. My biological baby dad is a piece of shit, very abusive so isn’t actually allowed near me or my unborn child (I’m 39 weeks) I met my current partner at 6 weeks pregnant (I didn’t know at the time) and although it’s a very weird situation he’s fully stepped up and wants to take me and my baby on. He’s been a gem throughout my pregnancy because I’ve been really really unwell. But see if he didn’t? See if he was anything like your partner or any of these other dead beat liars, I’d be single. I’d rather struggle on my own than struggle on my own with someone who should be

-Helping but refuses to. I think it’s more lonely being a single mum in a relationship. Rather just be a single mum lol

lol the 50/50 bit got me. Poor baby, must be so hard for him 😂 sending love, stick to your guns!!

Walk him like dog Sis, walk them like dogs! Cause that's what they are. Thinking we should stay and obey while they can act single. Boy bye

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