Why does my significant other think its okay to dismiss my feelings all the time.
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How is he supporting the “house” if he doesn’t work? At some point you need to decide what you’re going to put up with. He doesn’t respect you at all as a human being. I’d say you are better off on your own. Is this how you want your kids seeing you be treated?
So it’s a man’s job to support the house but he doesn’t work? Makes sense! And he doesn’t help with the kids but keeps getting you pregnant? You ain’t with a man you’re with a boy. I’m struggling to understand what you get out of this relationship? I’d be gone!
Yeahhh this is not the kind of person you should be raising children with. Dump him. Find better. I'm sorry he's trash. You deserve & can find better out there. That's my big sis advice: DUMP HIM!!!
Ummmm… something tells me that you know the answer to this. Talking to him isn’t it. You’ve tried that already and it’s falling on deaf ears. You have two options: 1. Accept that this is who you chose to be with and let it be what it is. Or 2. Move on. 2 is hard to do when you have children but if you don’t do it, he will eventually.
Maybe you do love him, but he does not love you. Someone who loves you doesn’t treat you like this. And even if you say he does love you, at minimum he doesn’t respect you at all. My advice, get the hell out of there as fast as humanly possible. If you have a daughter, imagine a man like that with her. If you have a son, imagine your son treating his girl that way. If any of that makes you sad or disappointed, you have your answer of why you should leave. People like him don’t change and it’s a fools game to stick around and pretend that the life you live with him is a life you aspired to have as a little girl.