Open relationship (for him not me)

5 years with partner 2 children 1 & 16 weeks old…. I really don’t want to have sex with partner. So I’ve been thinking about just allowing him to speak to other people and do what he wants. He has done this in the past without me knowing so has cheated and has cheated physically on me.. I don’t know if I’m just officially at the point of fallen out of love but I am just thinking of telling him to just go have sex and speak to other people but just don’t bring them in our home or choose them over our children… I think I’ll be upset but I know he has needs and I really don’t want to be the one meeting them needs 🙈

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Why don’t you just break up with him then ? I know I wouldn’t want to share my partner with other people we have 2 children too a one year old and a 3 week old I had a c section so am not ready for the sex part yet , instead of stringing him along better to let him be with someone who wants to be with him

Is this a new thing after baby or has it been like this a while?

I think it’s been getting like this for a while, our relationship is quite hostile he’s cheated physically and emotionally a lot of times, he’s quite abusive with his words not actions and I just think I’m now at a point where I just look at him and feel nothing 😔

Then break up, don’t allow this extra hurt (because it will hurt). Just move on.

Leave. If he’s abusive, just be done with it. Verbal abuse isn’t lesser than physical, has a massive impact mentally and won’t do your children any good either, even if it’s only aimed at you and not them.

If he’s cheated giving his permission is weird. And 100% will not make you feel better. I vote leave.

Just leave the damn man then, he’ll end up leaving you anyway for someone else so why bother just stringing him along when the end result is just going to end with him going off with someone else.

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