This man is horrible.

Just found out my baby daddy recently got a whole other woman pregnant and is currently not support me or that mother and the child and is in a whole other relationship with another woman with her own kids, I found this out from his best friend, his best friend was both our mutual friend so he has absolutely no reason at all to lie about this to me , me and my baby’s father aren’t in a relationship due to his irresponsibility and carelessness as a person in general and I didn’t wanna continue a relationship with him due to that, but he has done absolutely nothing to support me or the baby so I’ve went no contact for a few weeks now. My babies his first child and isn’t even born yet mind you im 19 weeks, so finding this all out is absolutely insane and embarrassing for him . It’s so gross , but anyways im gonna go make me sum tea and watch youtube .

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As u should he’s disgusting pay him no mind and move on with ur life as ur doing rn💅🥰

Girl, I wouldn’t even add him to the birth certificate then! File for custody and child support right away after baby is born! Then he will have to pay! You can still get support even if the dad isn’t on the birth certificate btw. They can do a dna test that’s through the courts so then he can’t deny it. Just move on and try not to stress during your pregnancy! Enjoy it as it goes by super fast! My 4th just turned 6 weeks!

@Nae just going by my own personal experience. That is true. My daughter’s father didn’t want to be on the birth certificate. We are in the process of finally getting him added and changing her last name. I knew he was the father but he was told he couldn’t have kids and I was there at the dr appointment so I didn’t get on birth control. His family got in his head. We got them tested when she was 5 days old and it’s of course his baby. She’s 12 now and just now has wanted this stuff done so that’s why. But yeah if you wanted him added it’s super simple to do!

If he is a dick and tried to take the baby, he has more rights if he’s outright on the certificate. But I say if he’s already acting like this, he doesn’t deserve anymore time wasted on him. Now if he steps up yes but otherwise no.

@Nae but yes you have to wait till baby is here to even do the birth certificate so if by then he’s stepped up then sure, add him. I just know there’s been so much added drama in my life wasting my time and energy on ppl who weren’t even worth it and my peace being gone!

@Nae I don’t see it as harsh in the slightest, I mean look he’s running around getting woman pregnant and not taking responsibility for any of it or supporting the unborn children, clear signs he does not care, straight up little boy mentality.. real fathers are the only ones that have that right to be allowed on a birth certificate if im being honest, the ones that take care and support their kids .

@Kira and that is exactly why he is not going on it, I have absolutely no trust for the man I’d be scared he’d try to run off with her or any of his random girlfriends he’d have would harm my baby, Couldn’t possibly ever even let him babysit .

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