I am so miserable

2 children 1 baby 1 toddler and i don't like being a Mum at the moment. I despise the same shit day after day. The same tantrums the mess the noise the no sleep. I'm just feeling like I shouldn't of had children. I love them both but I wonder if some people really just aren't cut out for it. I have no patience and not sure i can do this anymore. I have an amazing partner and support around me but I still find it all so hard. I have some good days don't get me wrong and I'm definitely grateful although I know I sound ungrateful. I don't know what to do
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I’m so sorry you are feeling this way and probably often. I have my moments for sure but country imagine having more than just my one right now. It sounds like you need a little vacation to recharge or a staycation in a B&B or even just a day to yourself. Is that something possible?

It’s going to be ok. I promise you that it gets better and before you know it they are off to college or off on their own living their own lives and it will be just you and your partner. You are going to miss it all. I know what I’m saying might sound silly right now because you are at your breaking point. But trust me, this is all temporary. Many moms feel like this but sometimes won’t admit so you’re not alone. Your feelings are totally valid. You are cut out for motherhood. Any human being would get overwhelmed with two young dependent children who needs you 24/7. I have only one child and I struggle sometimes so I totally understand and can relate. My suggestion is to use all your alone time to focus on self care when you get support with the kids. And again, remember this is all temporary. You got this mama! 💗

Thank you both so much. Your words have helped me alot this evening. I really appreciate you taking the time to message. Big love to you both ❤️

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