I would look into creating a birth plan. It'll help you feel more in control and confident in the situation. You can look up samples or templates to help guide you. It can include anything from the music you want playing...the lights that are on when baby comes out...who's allowed in the room with you...delayed cord clamping...skin to skin right after delivery. Good luck!!
You can ask them about recovery and when you can do certain things after like driving and lifting, how long does it take, if you would like to play your own music you can ask if that’s possible, how long people are usually in for after. I hope that helps. They will likely talk you through the whole process though x