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My partner says he don’t like my cooking says I can’t cook for **** … I stopped cooking for him am I in wrong for that ?! Why should I if keeps saying it’s crappy no matter what I do
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Lmao no you’re not in the wrong 😂 if my partner even dared saying something like this I’d never cook for him again, even easy things like microwaveable meals 😂 your partner is being hurtful for no reason. There’s much nicer ways to go about things, he could have been like “hey I don’t like the way you cook this, could you try another way?” Saying something like “you can’t cook for shit” is just being hurtful on purpose, so stick to your guns! Never cook for him again lol I wouldn’t

No it’s totally understandable maybe if he would’ve said it nicer it wouldn’t bug you as much. My bf told me once he didn’t like my cooking so I started practicing different techniques and he got me a cookbook. Now I still have my off days but he does enjoy it more now

My bf did the same, I never really was into cooking. I improved myself not for him but for me and my children. Sometimes I make him a plate sometimes dont. But now he be eating his words cus my cooking got better.

If you don’t want to cook for him then you not wrong. As a female and a male we should all know how to cook so then he can cook for himself

Or you could just learn to cook better?

Nope. He’s done. If he wants better he can learn to cook himself. And i personally would mark this off in the back of my head as a red flag. The constant nitpicking and criticizing of the food you make. Not saying to leave just consider it if that’s someone you want to marry in the future. If he doesn’t grow up and treat you with more kindness and respect. Cuz i doubt your cooking is the problem.

that’s unacceptable

You’re not wrong! I threw out a whole tray of lasagna cause my ex said he doesn’t know and doesn’t want to learn how to clean 🤷‍♀️

how about he cooks for himself and then we can see how much of a chef he thinks he can be 🤷🏻‍♀️ ungrateful mouths don’t get fed

Definitely not cool. But a life of delivery and take out to free up your time is priceless.

@Yana uno reverse 🥰

No. He can do it himself

@Eviee or you could learn to shut up

@Robyn Grow up 😂 you sound like a child.

@Eviee not at all. Not one person agrees with you here, she 100% could have learned to cook better if he hadn’t of been so goddamn rude. “You can’t cook for shit” is not constructive criticism, it’s just rude and nasty. Quite concerning you agree with treating your partner this way 😳 hence being told to shut up.

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@Robyn You think I live my life for people to agree with me? You do sound like a child, are you five? Please show me where my comment agreed with his treatment.

@Eviee I don’t care how you live your life girl, stop fishing, it’s boring. If I was five I’d find the fact I’m 39 weeks pregnant pretty concerning, your insult hasn’t landed. Very high school of you. You don’t have to say “I agree with his treatment” to come off like you agree with his treatment. Instead of telling her what he said wasn’t okay, you knuckled down and told her she should get better at cooking 😂 this treatment comes off borderline abusive, considering the end goal was to humiliate her/ make her feel like shit. You were not in support of her emotions, you were in support of his statements. You say I act five but you clearly have the comprehension skills of a five year old because I’ve just had to explain the blatant obvious to you 🥲

@Robyn GIRL BYE 🤣🤣 FOOLISHNESS. Go find something constructive to do! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Eviee oop, someone’s embarrassed 👀😭 You know you commented on this post too, right?

@Robyn Far from it love, I’m just not reading your novel. You sound foolish. Go about your day Troll.

@Eviee but you did read it though 😭 for me to sound “foolish” to your pea brain you’ve got to have actually read what I had to say 😭😭😭😭😭😭

@Robyn No I didn’t 😂 but keep up wit your pretend mind reading. Super cool powers kid. 😆 Have a good day.

@Eviee I have been for awhile it doesn’t matter how I make it he still complains . So made him cook for himself n I cook for me n our daughter

@Raven Dang. I’m sorry he still behaves that away even after trying something new. I agree that’s probably the best options then if you’re still wanting to be in that relationship.

@Eviee i don’t even know anymore

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