Cheating drama

I need help. I just found out my partner cheated on me not long into our relationship. We were doing long distance for a few months as we both had commitments to finish before we could be together. We had only been dating a short while but I feel so disrespected. We’ve spoken about it before and I asked about her and he told me it was the girl one of his friends were sleeping with. Obviously a lie, I know now. We’ve come a long way and it was over 2 years ago, we had a kid, we moved in together. I feel more upset about the face he lied to me rather than the actual action. Any advice??
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Try addressing this with him without being too harsh about it but also firmly and if he get defensive or tries to dismiss it just keep quiet because at the end it’s gonna be like you cause drama and you need to protect your peace so just keep quiet but be careful because that means he isn’t sorry. Unless if he is understanding and open then that’s a step forward.

Once a cheater always a cheater. My bd cheated on me at the beginning of our relationship I found out after I was preggers and he promised he’d change. He then cheated on me 7 times after that and ended up giving me chlamydia while I was pregnant.

I can understand how you feel. It was long ago but now that you find out he lied its kinda like ok wow... He lied about that and maybe you're even questioning what has happened since then. I think you should bring it up to him and if he gets defensive and doesn't respond to your feelings with reassurance. I do think you need to rethink the relationship status if that's what you're thinking. If he lied then get defensive, he has no intention of making you feel better about it. I personally would t want to deal with it anymore ( from experience) it made me overthink other instances. And to him its like you're just causing issues for the relationship

I completely get being annoyed by the lying, it would concern me what else he could keep from me. Maybe address that that's the main anxiety for you?

Alriiiight wrapping it up gals 🤣🤣 we had a calm conversation that ended up in him telling me it happened more than once, so it’s game over. No trying to make this shit work, what a waste of 2 years

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