SD and our baby

Really need advice here as I’m so unsettled by this behaviour and i don’t trust my SD. Recently she has been trying to get our baby to come with her whenever our baby wants a cuddle from mum mainly sometimes Dad. SD tries everytime baby wants to be with mum sit play etc she tries to get baby to come with her but doesn’t do this when baby is playing with her or cuddling or SD wants her own time. Sd is also challenging stepmum and trying to take the role of mum in the way she speaks to ours baby and decision being made. SD is 8 our baby is 1. Anyone else SD do this ?
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My SD does some stuff like this, probably not to that level but she is constantly fussing over baby or wanting to do things with him while I am. She is also 8 but baby is 5 weeks so we are hoping it is just because it’s new and exciting but it sure does get on my nerves sometimes. Have you spoken to your partner about it and how it makes you feel?

Yes dad said he had seen it ( done nothing at the time) and claimed he spoke to her privately where from his relay of that conversation put words into her mouth that she protecting our baby and didn’t need to with us so we won’t get to the bottom of that.

My SD does this and we tell her she is not a parent, she is the sister and to behave like a sister. She stops when we remind her. Xx

Does she do that frequently ? I don’t understand why it’s suddenly happening with the SD

She does yes 👎 some children are quite relentless and need lots of reminders.

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