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Ours baby
How long did you wait until you told your SKs about ours baby? If possible I’d love not to say anything until baby is here. But I know that’s not doable. Only because of hcbm😆
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I am envious of my SD relationship with my baby
Can I just start off with saying I’m aware this is a me problem and I have to work within myself to erase this I’m just looking for some understanding and if anyone may have felt the same in order for me to further understand this complex feeling going on within me and to mend it. So I have a baby girl who is now 7...
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Toddler and baby sharing bedroom
Hi guys! Asking for some thoughts / experiences please. We live in a 4 bed house and have a 2 year old daughter, 12 & 9 year old boy and girl step kids who are with us 4 days a week sometimes more. We are expecting another baby in September. We are undecided whether to turn our tiny downstairs study into a bedroo...
Incognito in Other
BM not allowing phone calls
My SD (10) lives with us by court order and spends around 2/3's of the time with us. The court order states that she can call SD once a week while she is with us. It doesn't stipulate how often my partner can call her, and I think for safeguarding reasons it was left open for him to be able to call her whenever he w...
S in Family
Just a rant
SD mum has not seen her for two months, and has been uninterested in any arrangements surrounding SD since she moved in 9 months ago. She pays nothing towards her, and it isn’t worth going to CSA because she doesn’t declare her earnings. She speaks to SD once a week, sometimes not at all for weeks at a time and is ...