My baby daddy said he could easily do my job as a mom. Also said I’m not needed and everyone does better without me. I do the bathing,feeding and spend so much more time with them. And he can’t handle them on his own half of the time. Dude doesn’t seem to understand parenting takes real work. He gets more sleep than the baby. He gets way more alone time than I have ever gotten in the almost 6 years I’ve been a mom.
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It's sad how they will disrespect the mother of their child but leave their child to be raised by the mother. If you disrespect me so much, go ahead and take it all on. That's just his defense mechanism.
I could get the chores done,I could do this and I could do that . You’re just being lazy . He can’t be a parent when I’m there because apparently I don’t let him do anything

Omgoodness I really thought I wrote this!! True story of my life. My husband works and i appreciate it truly. I ask for a break or a few minutes it turns into battle of who does more. Tells me okay, you get a job we can even out the load. So I did for 3 years and he would get home before me so you’d think he would start dinner…? Nope, that’s my job I signed up for it.
So that means he get to take a break after work and I can’t. Because I have to tend to kids right away because he won’t help when he is home 3.5 hrs earlier than me . I would jump straight in shower because I worked in medical field. He would complain because we are having another late night dinner. I got off at 7:30pm but yet he could do my work with no problems. Ugh