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@Laura having this same issue!
No I don’t LET HIM. But what he does in private i can’t control… but he better have the common sense to delete the history lmao
he chooses not to, i don’t let or not let him do anything
@Senia sadly im a snooper! he was deleting and i found it in screen time
I don't really care either way but he gets upset when he does. He'd rather spend time together but we work opposite shifts and have just had pur 2nd child and we've not been intimate for a few months
I don’t “let” my husband do or not do anything. I’m not his mom.
Came here to comment exactly what @SquishyMommy1 said!
I don’t “not let him” neither of us watch it as we consider it cheating.
I don't have control over what he does but as soon as it becomes priority over me it's a big problem. Set your boundaries and stay firm on em
I’m assuming you didn’t literally mean this the way so many others are taking it, but I’d say if you feel it’s a problem, he sees it as a problem by hiding it, and you feel the need to ask others if they feel the same way you do, then you likely need to explore those boundaries with your partner and trust your feelings. Doubting yourself is only going to make you anxious, and the longer you put off a conversation, the longer that resentment has to build for problems he may not even know you have. Good luck and big hugs!
Idc. Don’t know if he does or doesn’t honestly. I know I do randomly when it tickles my fancy & no one is going to “not allow” me 😅
@SquishyMommy1 came to say the same thing!
@Kelly same. My partner does as he pleases. It’s just out of pure respect that he doesn’t cross our discussed boundaries. Porn is not one of those boundaries. We don’t believe it’s cheating in the slightest. If he wants to have a wank to porn then crack on babes. I know I do 🤷🏻♀️
@Jade yes thank you for understanding. this is a boundary i have tried to set with him multiple times and he just gets more secretive about it. everyone has their own preferences when it comes to those types of videos. also if i feel like my man is disrespecting me then yes i am going to ask him to stop doing those things 🤷🏻♀️
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We're 25 and 2 kids in. We don't consider it cheating... I'm a tired mumma and he's a tired dad. Sometimes we don't have the energy to get intimate with each other so he watches or I watch it... We've even watched together on some occasions. It's helped us a lot to be honest. We don't have arguments about not being intimate because of it. He's a grown man and can do what he wants
Incognito....you didn't say it was a boundary that you have set in the original question, hence my response. That is very different. I might disagree with it but I do agree that if you set a boundary that he has agreed to then he should respect that boundary x
How poorly phrased. "Let". My husband chooses not to
boohoo to all you upset with the my choice of words. my husband can do as he pleases but watching porn is something we have talked about in our relationship and i was just curious where others stand. i prefer he doesnt and i wish he would respect that. thank you all for your input.
No but that doesn’t stop him from watching it either way and getting mad when I get upset at him for it