More of a vent: nesting
How do I explain to my husband that nesting isn’t just about the things getting done but about doing them myself?! (I have explained and thought he got it…)
He thinks he’s doing me a favor and surprises me with the nursery painted, when we were going to do it together. Colors picked out etc, so no issue there, just…the part of me that needs to nest is disappointed I didn’t get to paint the nursery. I can appreciate that he did it and he thought that’s what was best - but…still.
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This is actually great in a sense I wish my fiancé was like this at the moment. We have so much to do and if I don’t do it so far nothing is getting done, I feel so overwhelmed and would love for him to just do things without waiting for me to go off and try to do everything last minute or when it’s just too late. I could be due any week and we haven’t even washed baby clothes or packed a bag or even gotten the baby carrier out of storage. But in your situation you probably shouldn’t be painting especially with all the fumes and it was actually really great that he did that without you lol keep nesting away with everything else 🩷