Bd hates me for having his baby

We were solid for 4 years only for him tp turn on me when i got pregnant last year, my baby is 1 and he has done everything to make sure he’s out of our lives but he’s somehow playing victim like it’s my fault that he’s not part of his sons life? To make things worse I thought we patched things up in January only to find out im pregnant again, I told him and he doesn’t care to be a part of our lives. I don’t understand how he can act like this then make me feel like it’s my fault everytime we talk? He messaged me for the first time since January using very harsh and hateful words like what have I done to him exactly? He really brings down my mental health so I don’t engage but it’s crazy to me how men do all the damage then blame us like we don’t already have enough going on with raising our little ones to the best of our ability? Like im trying to heal dude leave me alone

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I’m sorry you are going through this! It’s not fair to you, your child and your unborn one…. If he doesn’t want to be in your life or theirs I would look into child support if he’s not helping out. Raising one child is hard and adding another while doing it on your own is another hurdle. I hope you find peace, happiness and have a healthy pregnancy. You are doing an awesome job!

I’m so sorry he’s doing this to you it’s absolutely not fair at all but I promise you will find an amazing father figure for those babies when you least expect it. Idk about you but I’m so petty so I would be taking him to court for child support unless he’s helping out 50% at least! You got this girl. That fact that you see how he really is and your trying your best to be the bigger person shows how strong no you are and your one year old and your baby that’s on the way is lucky to have you as a mother ❤️

I’m sorry your going through this but gurl why sleep with him to make another child after the way he acted the first time!? 1st time that’s on him 2nd time that’s on u (Fool me once shame on u, fool me twice shame on me). Just have your babies && block that man he don’t care about u or ya babies This post may sound harsh but it’s real Enjoy your life with your babies x

Girl I think my baby daddy and yours are lost brothers my baby daddy holds a grudge against me because he said I “trap” him but he’s not even supporting our child idk how’s that trapping him but fck him it’s his lost put his ass in CS and raise your babies

Probably for the best he ISNT involved or in your lives at all. Block him on all avenues and serve him child support through the courts. I did this when I was 20 and I'm glad he wasn't in our kids life at all, made things way simpler and I never had to deal with co-parenting. He was an awful dude

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