Has anyone else's bf/significant other said they don't think it's their kid

Mine says it jokingly. Is yours serious when he says it? I’d probably ask him if he questions it because he’s afraid of being a father? I bet he’d stop saying it then

I’m sorry that this is happening to you. You don’t deserve this. My bf has never said anything like this to me and our relationship is far far from perfect we have a lot of issues but he’s never said anything like that. I think you should look at what’s best for you and being in a situation where a person makes you feel this way isn’t good. Just take care of yourself and I don’t know you but you’re more than welcome to reach out. I’ve been in abusive situations prior to now and know mental and emotional abuse is real too

my first bd groomed me at the ripe age of 16. he was 21 at the time. needless say by the time i was almost 18, he knocked me up. 6 months pregnant he accused me of cheating on him with one of my friends (i didn’t have contact with said friend for long than 6 months at this point). after the baby was born. he told all his friends that my baby wasn’t his. meanwhile she literally came out looking exactly like him and i had never cheated. he did tho. with many women and multiple other under age girls. majority of the time if they’re accusing you of something, their the ones doing it. hugs girl 🩷 just remember if you need to leave. it’s better to be a single mom than live in a house where your already a solo parent and dealing with negativity.

My husband jokes that our 4th isn't his bc she has blue eyes we both have brown🤣 obviously shes his as we lived together at the time and we had sex every other day the whole month before we conceived her

@Taylor this is so good !!

At first my husband joked about it cause we both are Latinos with dark eyes and dark hair and our baby now toddler is white as can be with blonde hair and blue eyes. And his side of the family started to question it so it made him start to actually doubt . I never cheated on this man he is my whole world. But I didn’t think anything of it and got them tested obviously the test showed it was indeed his son and now him and his family don’t question it or joke about it. Of course I felt like I didn’t have anything to prove but at the same time why not if that’s something that would make him feel better and calm his mind i don’t see the harm….

That's awful if he is saying that... I hope he is saying it jokingly. If not, I'd do a paternity test and show proof, then leave his ass and file for child support. But that's just me, lol

My ex pulled that card because I put him on child support. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Now he's mad because he's not able to take him on outings until the results come back. Don't take it too personally. Men can be very petty and often do not actually think through the full results of their decisions. Just leave the Dad and move out if y'all live together and get him the DNA test and go ahead and file for child support. You don't HAVE to do all that unless you want to, obviously, but, kids will notice an unhappy home eventually.

Mine has said it with both my pregnancies. It bothered me a lot but i used to just tell him to leave me alone then if he doesn’t think it’s his. And reminded him each time he made a comment like that, that he and I both were present when the child was conceived. And he couldn’t deny that cause he knew the extensive time we spent together. Its honestly foolish of them to accuse the child possibly not being theirs in most cases, especially mine, when they know no protection was used either. It just shows a lot about their character.

No, I offered my partner a paternity test and let him know I wouldn't be offended because we weren't in a relationship at that time. If he asked with my 2nd I wouldn't mind but I think him accusing you of cheating is more a sign that he's probably cheating. Next time he says it, I would use it as an opportunity to offer a paternity test because that's exactly what you'll need to get him put on child support when it's time to leave. Most women have trouble getting them to show up for the test, so act like its no big deal and file it away hun. Good luck to you 🖤

My husband has said this too. I was incredulous because he has no good reason to believe that I cheated on him! We talked about it and determined that it was his anxiety and depression telling him that he wasn't worthy and that he can't trust anyone.