Cheating!!!

I think my partner is cheating,
So he recently went 420 and before he went he made a new snap for some unknown reason when I asked him about it he denied it and said he hadn’t made one even though I had already seen it, since then he’s been hiding his phone from me all the time.

We already have 1 little boy and a little girl that sadly passed last year and I’m currently pregnant again I really don’t need the stress or the worry that he’s sleeping with other people or talking to other people.

I don’t wanna go through this pregnancy alone and don’t want my son to not have he’s dad in he’s life but at the same time I can’t have my babies seeing me hurt and crying all the time. Xx

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It’s difficult. Do what’s best for you and always remember to happy yourself

Would he handover his phone for you to check it if you asked?

Went through something similar, message me if you wanna talk xx

just messaged X

I had the same thing happen to me my daughter is 8months though out he cheated I have only just recently left him yes it’s fucking hard but u push though it some days are better than others I find nights are the hardest but I promise you he will keep doing it no matter what just leave. You can add me on snap you are not doing this alone we are all here xxx

I’m so sorry 😔 if he’s causing you more pain than happiness, it sounds like maybe you need to step back and think what’s best for you and your babies. Yes you’re pregnant now, but one day that baby is going to be older and will see how the father treats you. Don’t let the pregnancy cloud your judgment.

I’m so sorry about the loss of your baby girl 💛

In my opinion, you should always trust your gut but act on proof. You need to go through his phone. Ask him to go through his phone after he’s just been on it, so he hasn’t got the chance to hide or delete anything. But in my experience, my gut feeling has never been wrong. I was made to feel hormonal and crazy for around 2 years, made to feel guilty over not trusting him, until I finally had the courage to message a girl I was suspicious of and she confirmed everything and even told me about more girls.

My heart honestly breaks for you reading this. You’re carrying so much grief, pregnancy, motherhood and still trying to protect your peace for the sake of your children. That already makes you an incredible mum. I went through something very similar when I was pregnant the hiding, the phone stuff, the second guessing… It nearly broke me.
What helped me get through was reading a book I found called Becoming Her. It’s full of motivation, advice about baby dad situations, healing, journaling, and even little faith reminders that helped me stay grounded.
It reminded me that choosing myself isn’t selfish, it’s survival especially when we’re carrying little ones who feel everything we feel.
You’re not alone, and I hope you know that even if things feel heavy now, peace is still possible. Let me know if u want the link xxx

just messaged X

hey girl, could you send me the link x

please send the link X

https://becomingherrfinds.etsy.com/uk/listing/4306305598/becoming-her-young-mum-edition

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