Cheating!!!

It’s difficult. Do what’s best for you and always remember to happy yourself

It’s a really difficult one but you have to do what’s best for you and yours. Having him around is hurting you and that reflects on your babies, it will be hard on your own and there’s no reason why your partner can’t be in your babies life. I am and have been in similar situation, my messages are open if want to talk. But you have to do what’s best for you, a happy mummy or a sad mummy x

A lot of us woman have a fear of being alone and yes it is hard, yes we want that family unit but sometimes we have to think is staying worth it? It might be easier but our feelings and emotions are more important. Message me if you want x

Would he handover his phone for you to check it if you asked?

If I was you just ask him can I have your phone for a minute please ? And see what he’s like if he goes yeah ok and looks at you weirdly then you’ll know nothings up if he’s proper cagey then you’ll know , you’ll have to ask him face to face not phone him and say oh btw can I see ur phone when u come home etc etc Do you know his phone code ? If he’s got one of not then maybe. See my other half will always hand me his mobile usually music I’m needing it for haha but I also know his code and he knows mine we don’t really go on one another’s phones but we do know each others codes x

Went through something similar, message me if you wanna talk xx

@Aimee just messaged X

I had the same thing happen to me my daughter is 8months though out he cheated I have only just recently left him yes it’s fucking hard but u push though it some days are better than others I find nights are the hardest but I promise you he will keep doing it no matter what just leave. You can add me on snap you are not doing this alone we are all here xxx

I’m so sorry 😔 if he’s causing you more pain than happiness, it sounds like maybe you need to step back and think what’s best for you and your babies. Yes you’re pregnant now, but one day that baby is going to be older and will see how the father treats you. Don’t let the pregnancy cloud your judgment.

I’m so sorry about the loss of your baby girl 💛 In my opinion, you should always trust your gut but act on proof. You need to go through his phone. Ask him to go through his phone after he’s just been on it, so he hasn’t got the chance to hide or delete anything. But in my experience, my gut feeling has never been wrong. I was made to feel hormonal and crazy for around 2 years, made to feel guilty over not trusting him, until I finally had the courage to message a girl I was suspicious of and she confirmed everything and even told me about more girls.

My heart honestly breaks for you reading this. You’re carrying so much grief, pregnancy, motherhood and still trying to protect your peace for the sake of your children. That already makes you an incredible mum. I went through something very similar when I was pregnant the hiding, the phone stuff, the second guessing… It nearly broke me. What helped me get through was reading a book I found called Becoming Her. It’s full of motivation, advice about baby dad situations, healing, journaling, and even little faith reminders that helped me stay grounded. It reminded me that choosing myself isn’t selfish, it’s survival especially when we’re carrying little ones who feel everything we feel. You’re not alone, and I hope you know that even if things feel heavy now, peace is still possible. Let me know if u want the link xxx

@Sapphire just messaged X

@Sapphire hey girl, could you send me the link x

@Sapphire please send the link X

@Aimee https://becomingherrfinds.etsy.com/uk/listing/4306305598/becoming-her-young-mum-edition

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@Sapphire tried to message xx

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