I broke up with him on mother's Day. He has only seen the kids like twice since mother's Day and his excuse is that he's still in his feelings and He's still hurt and don't want to come over to see the kids if he don't want to have to see me. I told him nobody matters besides the kids. I told him I don't want to go down the child support route but if he doesn't help me financially with them and if he walks out on them then I'll have to but I don't want to do that, we have.a 5 yr old girl, 2 yr old and in 3 days have a 1 yr old and he keeps trying to tell our oldest and I keep saying no because she doesn't even understand, any advice.
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You can’t force him to act. If he doesn’t that’s on him. Stay strong for your kids. If you can’t financially do it on your own, don’t let your pride stop you from asking for help. Do what’s best for you and your babies.

thank you.