Message to the other woman

I mean it’s hard cuz there’s a chance that he has told her that you are crazy and that she might lie for him… so I mean you can be honest but sometimes it’s not what you think… as in she might be brainwashed by him and it won’t matter what you say. I say this as someone who’s ex husband cheated and the other woman lied for him about things to trap me… the wife.. as if I was the one who was desperate to hurt him.. even though I was the one hurting…

I'd straight up ask. If he can go behind your back, you can do the same to make sure you're safe. Why not.