Pregnant with third 🥺
I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant. I have a two year old and a one year old. Idk what to do…i currently work full time and so does my husband. I had two c section and tbh I need my body to heal and I’m not ready for a third one! I feel like my husband wants to keep it but I’m not sure if I’m ready! Any advice will help! I feel so guilty about terminating it but idk what to do
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I would ask yourself:
-Can we financially provide for all 3 kids at this time?
-Do we currently, or feasibly could in the near future have the space for all 3 kids?
-Would we be able to give the love and attention they all need right now with their ages?
-Are we in a place to be able to try again in the future? (Age is a factor)
-What would healing look like?
-Do you have the support needed to heal properly? Or are you going mainly to be caring for 3 kids while trying to heal?
It’s hard to make this kind of decision no matter the circumstances, but these questions are the logical side of it. Hopefully this helps ❤️
As well as the above questions, do you need a new car to fit 3 car seats in.
Don’t feel guilty atall, you need to do what’s best for you!
Sit down with husband and go through everything, pros, cons, money.
Sending love🩷💙
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