Having to leave my BF/BD
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@Chloe, but I'm also terrified of him near a baby... he has really really bad anger issues he abuses animals. What could he do to a helpless newborn..he is also literally high off his mind all the time
could you possible get a restraining order ?
Okay given this context I would get the police involved and show the evidence so you can be granted a restraining order and custody of your child.
Yes take the advice of these other mommas..... Get out ASAP and as soon as the baby is born go straight to the court and add the baby to the restraining order
Thank you everyone for the advice I will follow it I appreciate the help everyone
Your welcome . I do have a group on here you can join if you want to.
My heart goes out to you. Pregnancy is already so hard, and to go through it while battling anxiety, illness, and relationship pain you’re honestly stronger than you realise. I was in a dark place not long ago too. What helped me feel like myself again and move forward with more clarity and strength was this ebook I found called Becoming Her. It’s made specifically for young or struggling mums it talks about baby daddy drama, healing, finding your strength again, even journaling prompts that helped me calm my anxiety. If you ever just need something that feels like a hug and a reminder of who you are, I really recommend it. You’re not alone 💛 let me know if u want the link
@Sapphire thank you so much yes please I am a teen mom, too. I'm only 18 it's been horrible with barely any support too
@ella yea I'll join it thank you.
Personally I wouldn’t lie about the fact he’s the father of my child bc at the end of the day the child is innocent and deserves two parents in their life. Regardless of what happened in the relationship it’s still his child. I would just move back in with family and let him know the relationship is done . Inform him that you don’t want a relationship in the future the only thing you want to discuss is the child. Calculate the cost of things you’ll need for the baby and inform him or just claim child support.