Anybody dealt with their child’s father being verbally abusive, lying/spreading lies, being manipulative, telling you that y’all done, move on/nobody will want you, cold shoulder, pettiness, saying their not a good mother etc etc….
But then ! He turns around after a while (like 2 months) and wants $3x and then talking all this crap like we should give our son a sister, i should only have 1 bd and he only wants 1 woman to have his children & “threatening” me if i “give it away”, LMAO being all up on me, (& also eating which he doesnt do)
all along ive been trying to figure out why this guy hates me but i slowly did start to realize he might hate that he actually loves me or something similar but he doesnt hate me.
We still live together because…the economy.
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This is a mess and will continue to be a mess as long as you allow it to be. The kids deserve better

Sorry but your standards are low and he knows it so he comes back when he has no alternative.

Don't be an option for anyone. Sounds like he'll say whatever he needs to, to try and get back in there again. You and your kids deserve better x

Girl there is not such thing as hating because he loves you. I am very sorry to say
Exactly 👌🏾 i agree with yall its just so toxic to deal with when i can’t financially part ways 🤦🏾♀️