My partner is going on a date…

I’d go and catch him red handed!!!! Girls aren’t loyal to girls anymore. See what he has to say, maybe take photos too so he doesn’t say it wasn’t true 😫🫣 these men!!

This is a very difficult situation. I will go there and confront him cos if you wait later, he will denial it and say he was out with his boys. Then again your pregnancy and you don’t want to put yourself and baby at risk. U know what leave him, he’s not worth the fight. Just focus on yourself now. Pm me if you want to x

Awe I’m so sorry you are going through this right now. I’d just start preparing to not be with him anymore. Pack any of his things he has at your place up and tell him to go ahead and come get them. Call on friends and family for support so that you don’t have to be alone right now.

I would go, not exactly catch red handed in confrontation…I’d take a pic or just from my own f cking knowing, I would pack anything at my place that’s his and leave it outside girl🚮

Not worth it, he’s trash. I would personally ghost out and let the court deal with parental things my pride is too big sometimes I prob would get clothes from food bank for baby if needed if I can’t do it before asking him after all that bs

Girl where do you live? I'm on my way!

Oh bless you, this really sucks I’m so sorry 😢 I wouldn’t confront them if I were pregnant, I would see red and the stress on the baby isn’t worth it. Put yourself and your baby first ❤️ Talk to people who love and care about you, and think about your next move. But you deserve so much better darling xx

girl if you don’t confront him and text her.

Girl if you’ve got friends this is the time they need to literally be there for you, roll up at the location cameras out and in his face, male friends too incase anyone wants to get violent because why have 2 babies with you if he’s going to be cheating. Dating is so intimate as well. I’m so sorry hunny !!!!!

I’m a girls girl there’s not many around though I would go catch him and go pick up my baby

My ex did this something like this he left me after 11 years and four kids I was 26 weeks pregant with our son

Girl why won’t you go catch him in the act? I got to do that once. Poured wine on his head in front of her and everyone. It was one of the most satisfying moments I got to experience haha

For anyone asking why she won’t go and catch him. U.K. girls are a different breed and it’s not worth her putting herself in a position to get attacked at 6 months pregnant. She’s vulnerable.

This is so devastating. I’d start putting together an exit plan asap! Make sure your finances are in check etc

@Olivia is being attacked during confrontation normal?

@Stacey 🇵🇸 it’s not normal but EXTREMELY common here, it’s absolutely just not worth it for OP. Xx

@Olivia then do you just break up?

Personally I don’t see the point in “catching someone out” and making a scene she already knows what’s going on better to just have a proper plan together and leave them why waste your energy especially when your 6 months pregnant maybe if I wasn’t pregnant but this is deeep on another level and so much to consider

@Stacey 🇵🇸 if she was confronting her man alone she’s good but going to confront him with a third party will never work out in her favour. With a baby bump confronting her man with another lady just looking at her or probably yelling back at her makes no sense. Things can go left easily, people are crazy and there’s no need for OP to try to find out what kinda girl is his sneaky link. She’s pregnant and needs to protect her peace xx

Incog are you afraid of being attacked? All the more reason to leave. I’m sorry he’s doing this to you, what a selfish and ugly thing. I know exactly the feeling of your partner being out and cheating while you’re pregnant at home. It’s enough to make you sick bits very traumatizing.

I would definitely turn up!!! How dare he. If you wait he will deny it. You don’t need to confront them. He just needs to see you and know you’ve seen him then leave. You deserve so much better. Move on either way with your little family x

Also agree with Olivia. Last thing she needs is some little rat mouthing off or being physical. I would go, not alone though. I wouldnt approach them either but I would stand where my partner could see me and could see I have seen him then I would leave. After I would collect my baby from his mother’s house would pack all of his things and be done with him completely. I hope things work out for you please don’t sit in alone stressing yourself out he isn’t worth it at all x

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How did it go? Are you on 😫

I pray you leave him. You deserve better and someone will give you better.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You’re six months pregnant, vulnerable, and should be surrounded by love and support—not dealing with betrayal and anxiety. It’s completely valid to feel angry, hurt, and betrayed. You’re carrying this man’s child, caring for your family, and he’s out possibly cheating? That’s deep disrespect. 🚨 Think Before You Act You’re feeling a surge of emotions—rightfully—but making decisions in this state can backfire. Before calling the girl or pulling up on him, consider: Will calling her make you feel better or worse? What do you want from that conversation—revenge, answers, to warn her? Is she even aware of your situation, or is she being lied to as well? If she’s a “girls’ girl,” she might feel awful and back away. But if she’s not, it might just escalate into drama that brings you even more pain.

I know how hard your heart was pumping and how painful your skin felt.. im so sorry

@Barbara thank you so much for this message xx

@Dessy he went on the date it 4am now so idk if he’s at his apartment with her or on his how but it happened and I have to think of my plan of action

You’ll be okay hun, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Please feel free to reach out if you need someone to talk to 🩵

@Stacey 🇵🇸 very bad advice, she is pregnant to her to have a high stress while pregnant ? Who cares if he is taking her girl out ? She should focus on her pregnancy and potentially decide to leave when the baby is born and now she should stay away form stress .

What a rat! I hope you leave him because you deserve so much better and don't let him talk you round into staying. Because he will love the fact he got away with it

Don’t do anything . Your pregnant . You gonna put yourself and your baby under a high stress if you go there . Some girl have lost their baby like that or by fighting while pregnant . Don’t care about him . Just tell him that you know and that it’s over . And ignore him . No point to call the girl cause if she want to take your man she won’t care and will still see him . Girl are not loyal to girl unfortunately. Focus on you and you pregnancy and decide what you will do after the baby is born . You girls that tell her to go are really bad advice !

I am so so sorry. You and your babies deserve so much better

@Julia they had sex I’m just sitting at home crying. I didn’t go I stayed at home but I’m gonna have to see him when he drops my son back

@Julia to me, the idea of not doing anything about it is far more stressful. I was pregnant too and the confrontation is what helped relived me of it.

Does he know that you know? You’re better off without him. Your forever person who will worship the ground you walk on is out there somewhere. I’m so sorry

What the actual F!!!!!!!!! Why do you expect this I’m sorry so sorry you deserve better

Sending you lots of love and strength to handle this awful situation your dick of a partner put you in. Look after yourself and baby please 😓😘😘😘😘

Keep all the receipts and proof this is a sign to move on…take your son and you’re ✌🏾 protect yourself and baby. Someone else will treat you better than this shit 💩

Sorry to hear this is happening to u. U need to get rid of this 2 timing scum , u deserve someone who will be there for u an love u etc!! U can do so much better. Try not to stress as ur pregnant id concentrate on urself and ur baby , fuck him xx