Help and advice please (long story)

Daughter nearly a year old , he’s been working 5 days a week I started back at work a month ago I’m getting no help around the house and with my daughter always an excuse “can you get her clothes you put them away idk where they are” “can u feed her she feeds better from you” “can you change her I’m not too good at it” “can you put her in a bath I hate the feeling of the lotion and I don’t feel confident putting her in a bath” Found out he’s been talking to his ex I kicked off wondering why he’s messaging her “she’s got stuff going on” even though she has a partner and they haven’t spoken to each other since they were 18 years old he is now 24 and he deleted her cause how I felt then 2 days later added her back again hiding his phone changed his password added Face ID to WhatsApp changed all his passwords and added a privacy screen to his phone so I broke up with him we live together it’s only been 1 month since we broke up he’s now talking to other girls and guess who his ex again what should I do I feel lost and I can’t do anything because we broke up but we live together and I told him I broke up with him because I wanted more help and he didn’t see that then he changed and started helping out I said I’m considering to get back together that you have actually made a huge effort to change and found out that day he’s talking to these people what do I do

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DON'T GET BACK WITH HIM A rule of thumb to follow is if you break up with someone, you don't get back together. You broke up for a reason. Unfortunately he was cheating on you girl, and men who cheat can never be trusted. The effort he's making is likely just a manipulation tactic to get you back and it'll go back to how it was before :/ I've experienced this personally and several times with the same guy. It'd get really bad, he'd finally apologize and start making an effort, then after a couple weeks give or take it went right back to how it was. Stay strong and hold firm! You need someone with stability and trustworthiness in you and your daughter's lives 💜 Ofc your daughter should still know him, but she also should (at some point) have a proper male role model as she needs a father (father figure) to be the basis on what a good man is and is supposed to be I know it has to be hard especially living with him, but you've got this!!

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Tbh with you darl the worst thing you can do is go back to him. especially if he's been chatting to his ex and then not even a month after you break it off with him he's already jumping onto the next fresh meat he can get his hands around. The repect he has for you is completely none existent and going back to a guy like that who's clearly just one of those men to just be jumping fron relationship to another like all you can eat Buffet is concerning behaviour and clearly needs help. You on the other hand leave him to it..You got bigger better things to be doing than letting him be in your life because in all truth here but ...It will just be the same old crap amd going back a life where you will struggle and he will just sit there like a dog clueless out of his mind about what is going on and be waiting for you to tell him what to do like ..overall just don't be settling again for the bare minimum guy x

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