If hes a gamer how long does he game for?
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Jeez. Yeah that would be a hell no for me. My partner has his own apt and I stay with my dad. When we go over to his place sometimes he wants to game. I usually take a nap or something for an hour or two. Like I get needing to unwind but no I wouldn’t be okay with him gaming for more than an hour a day if we are awake and stuff and I need help with the kids. If someone tells me they are a gamer I kinda just think of them as a loser honestly bc I just don’t have time or want to spend the time in a made up lala land when I have small children who deserve my attention and time way more!
I’m not talking about normal gamer ppl lol I’m talking about the ones where they are addicted and it’s just unhealthy the amount of time they game.
You decide what is “normal” and okay for your household. What may be normal and okay for your household may be different for another. Communicate as best as you can and set boundaries. Is he helping out where needed? Not just with the kids, but is your relationship getting attention? Helping out around the house? I think those are all good points to bring up in a conversation. For me, I don’t care if my boyfriend plays as long as he’s handled his priorities… his priorities are a clean home and his family. Have you tried speaking with him?
I myself am a gamer as well as my partner we play for 2 hours on the week days when our baby girl is down in bed for the night. On the weekends we will play during her scheduled nap and then again when she’s in bed until we get tired. He used to play all day but once we had our baby girl everything changed.
My boyfriends starting to do this & im not happy w it , but I somewhat think it’s there way to relieve “pressure” that they think they have .
This is “normal” for some people, but it definitely wasn’t okay with me when my ex pulled this shit for years. Work and game work and game. 🤷🏻♀️ At the end of the day, you decide what you’re okay with. Communicate your feelings before the resentment gets too big. Sorry you’re dealing with this. It’s unfair.