Why..

Me and my partner were so excited for our third. The pregnancy was so rough but I couldn't wait to hold them. Now she is out and it hasn't been easy for either of us.. we both have feelings of regret in bouts. I love my baby. I do but I keep hearing a little voice questioning why we had another one? I know it's just because im tired and physically healing, but I feel so awful those thoughts ever popped up..
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I would keep an eye on these thoughts. Could possibly be PPD. I’m sorry you’re feeling this way ❤️

It's okay it is very draining so just hold your baby trust in God he gave you this baby that someone else wished for 🙏

@Brittany I struggled with PPD with my other two. So im trying to keep up with this..

@Sandra My partner has been helping me. Reminding me that we are excited, we love her, and this period of exhaustion will pass.

That's good that he his helping you 😊

@Sandra he's the best support. Been really helpful through this

@Sandra They actually recommend magnesium over melatonin now:) It’s great for sleep!

@Julianna I did use magnesium during my pregnancy. Its good for a lot actually!

I have two kiddos and still wonder why I ever had kids sometimes. I strongly consider getting either my husband or I fixed. Husband wants more with a bigger age gap tho. I have severe emetaphobia so most of the time I seriously doubt myself is when I’m in the depths of that.

@Josie it's a weird feeling but im glad im not alone in it spurring on. It usually doesnt hit me but it sure did this time. Thankfully, I had a talk with my partner and it truly helped me out. We are 100% done with having more kids though. He wants to get snipped. Haha.

@Julianna yes that to it's great to relax kids too ☺️

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