Life..

Incognito 🥸 this is what men do! Let me tell you something when a man fucks up and sees you doing well that’s the time they will treat you the best of the best why they want you to crawl back to them that’s why.

You won’t feel right for a while because you have added another child to your life bringing kids up it’s not a peace of cake. The sleepless nights the changing the nappies the feeding feeling like a milked cow 🐮
Not having no one to one time with your partner of 4 years. This is affecting all the way that your feeling.

And then you see the Father of your other kids giving his 💯% not having to deal with what your current partner is dealing with. The responsibility of having family together under the same roof, I’m assuming he’s taking care of your kids like his own as well and being the bread winner of the house. And I bet he try’s his best to help with the little one. Give him some slack please.

And can I ask why you split up from your child’s father in the first place?

we were also together for 4 years, engaged. He thought I was talking to someone else and took my ring and the kids. My bf does take care of mine as his own and he loves them, however the yelling, the looking into every detail. The name calling. It’s a lot.

Name calling who?

And thinking you were talking to someone else assuming he was mistaken how come he didn’t go back to where you guys were before. But think about it do your really want to throw away those 4 years?

At the start of every new relationship it’s always fun and you guys will be in honeymoon period! Who’s to say after another 4 years what if you feel the same way as you do now? What then? I mean it’s different if you say you don’t love your previous partner. But every relationship you need to put in hard work.