Is it normal and common for your husband to ask for anal sex

To be honest, Girl, I will be open to him about not wanting anal sex, but if you are questioning anything I would be open to him about that too.

I mean I’d say it’s normal guys see a hole and are like yep 🤣 but don’t do anything you don’t wanna do and he should respect that

If it isn’t something you are interested in, you should tell him. You should both have a conversation about what it is you do and do want and what your boundaries are.

your husband knows that’s not how a vagina works though.. right?

i think the second explanation is 10x better & comes across less uneducated.

Basically the ass hole is tighter 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ as someone else mentioned doesn’t have anything to do with sexuality and does not make a straight man gay if they want to do anal. Obviously only partake in it if you want to some women like it and others don’t find pleasure in it

let’s hope you’re the only one he’s said it to & not spreading misinformation about vagina’s - too many people already think that’s how vaginas work 🤦🏼‍♀️

i don’t know your husband, so i don’t know what type of people he talks to etc, what he talks to them about 🤷🏼‍♀️

Everyone has their own sexual desires, and most have nothing to do with sexual orientation unless it’s related to having it with the same sex etc.

I really enjoy anal sex and my boyfriend and I do this whenever we choose.

It’s fine for him to ask, if you are not comfortable and do not want it then you need to be really clear and upfront about that. “That doesn’t interest me and I’d like you to respect my decision and not ask me again unless I bring it up”. Any caring partner would be comfortable with that answer and not ask again.

Just keep in mind that he could be opening up to you about a kink of his - anal - which you should also be respectful about because some people find it vulnerable to say these things to their partner.

Perhaps you could sit down and have a conversation if he has any other kinks instead you don’t know about and are open to trying instead, or suggest something different you’d be interested in trying ☺️