Partner video calling a cam girl

To me girl its not normal should only have eyes for you my personal opinion.

I just called a whole wedding off and flushed 10years down the drain when I discovered my fiance was sexting other women he confessed to 14+ before our first was even born. We've physically been together for 5 so whatever you choose just know you deserve better than that. Nothing is your fault dont let them gas light you into thinking it is.

Definitely not normal. I’d consider that a form of cheating if that’s not something yall communicated and agreed to being okay with. And you going through his phone is not the blame. Him doing it behind your back and not openly is how you know he been knew he was dead wrong

@Macdalia I'm so hurt by this, he is just denying it and saying he didn't do it. But she called him on telegram and he called back once by voice and then video called 2 times

@Ambar I completely understand, it's just I don't have any family and iv got 2 children with him so I'd really struggle if we broke up. I also love him so much, but I cant be with somebody who is cheating on me. Then another part of me says the children will miss seeing him everyday etc and I start to feel guilty and then start to think I should just stay with him as he is a great dad. I definitely need to have a moment to myself and then make a decision as I'm overthinking too much tonight

You will receive advice sometimes coming from people’s personal experiences but remember not all men are terrible cheaters who are all the same just like all women aren’t the same. A lot of people are in healthy committed relationships just as much as the opposite.

Honestly, I know it’s scary and you don’t want to hurt ur children’s bond but once your children are older and continuously see you being disrespected they will either start to look down on you just like him or they will think they deserve to be treated the same. It’s not worth it to live a sad miserable life je can still be a good dad without being with you. Reach out to organizations and if you can find a therapist they can find you resources as well. I hope the best for you whatever you choose to do. Ik it’s just easier to settle to keep things in tact for the kids but you deserve happiness

Dude, that’s F’d up

@Bella thank you, this morning he said the person called for money because she's in another country and hungry. I called the person and she said she didn't know him, I sent her picture and then she said the same thing. But he is now getting angry with me for going on his phone

@Bella I really love this man, I just wish he would stop all of this. For our children, if not me