Soo, I a few weeks ago my fiancé asked me to check his messenger to see if a certain person had texted. What I saw there was a message from his ex and that their chat had been muted. This was the only message there was in it (it was a TikTok. I also feel it is important to note: we have been together 8 YEARS). I asked him about it the next day and he told me that she had been texting him and that he kept telling her to leave him alone. I asked him to block her to which he said “no. That will just start stuff”. So, I started packing his shit and then he decided to block her. What’s weird to me, is that he immediately started trying to figure out where his blocked list was because he “just wanted to see who all was blocked”. I feel like he is just unblocking her to talk and reblocking so I don’t catch on. I don’t know how to really feel about this or if I can ever actually trust him again.
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Ummmm first red flag is a muted chat. Second red flag is when you asked him to block her he said no. Girl I would not trust him, do a random unexpected phone check, ask him let me see your phone randomly when he’s using it & if his behavior starts to get jumpy and not calm about it something is obviously up.