Relationship/Men Issues

Basically me and my husband have had issues for a while in regards to his lack of love towards me!! The other night I found out he had been looking at girls on Facebook! He said he saw her picture on twitter liked what he saw and searched her on Facebook!!! I'm annoyed I told him I knew as I could have asked her to message him and see if he would actually try to meet her etc!!

I really wanna test the waters and get someone to message him and see what he would do?! Would anyone be willing to help?!

Soo, I a few weeks ago my fiancé asked me to check his messenger to see if a certain person had texted. What I saw there was a message from his ex and that their chat had been muted. This was the only message there was in it (it was a TikTok. I also feel it is important to note: we have been together 8 YEARS). I asked him about it the next day and he told me that she had been texting him and that he kept telling her to leave him alone. I asked him to block her to which he said “no. That will just start stuff”. So, I started packing his shit and then he decided to block her. What’s weird to me, is that he immediately started trying to figure out where his blocked list was because he “just wanted to see who all was blocked”. I feel like he is just unblocking her to talk and reblocking so I don’t catch on. I don’t know how to really feel about this or if I can ever actually trust him again.

Hi, I’m not ok…I recently found out my husband of four years and father of our 7 month olds cheated on me with a trans woman ESCORT (at least once or more). He also had an emotional relationship with a girl from his school for at least a month. I told him I want a divorce and now he’s of course saying he wants to win me back and that he’s mentally ill and needs help. I’ve had to hold back on the divorce for a bit because I do recognize he’s not well. I just don’t understand how I never saw the trans thing coming…🥺 or how he could do this to him new little family…

So I woke up very early this morning 5am to be exact to please my man and maybe I’m being a little sensitive but I think he liked it but he didn’t touch me back did I do something wrong was he not in the mood or something I mean I woke him up but kinda hurt my feelings

I want to leave my husband but he has no where to go… his brother 36 years old lives (and his 2 kids part time) with his mom which is where he normally goes…

I’m done with my marriage.. he is a 35 year old MAN CHILD…

he has a job but doesn’t work (he’s only been at this job for 2-3 weeks). He doesn’t help me out with cleaning or with the kids. He hasn’t worked since last Wednesday. He got “sent home” Monday, he called off yesterday and “got sent home” again today even though he didn’t come straight home.. he went to a gas station on THE OTHER SIDE OF TOWN (that he use to work at He “quit” the gas station for this job because I left him twice over that job) that a girl I’m pretty sure he was having at least an emotional affair with. He never once told me he got sent home from work and instead of coming home he went there to see her. (I only because he 1) didn’t spend any money there and 2) went to the gas station we ALWAYS go to that’s a block away from our house)

Then he comes home and is pissy towards me for no reason and he went straight upstairs and went to sleep. That was 8am he slept until 4pm still acting pissy with me we ate dinner as he played video games with his brother and at 8pm he went to bed “for work tomorrow” (at 7am). So I had to bathe our two year old and our 2 month old and the two year old put to bed. Now I’m taking out the trash that he walked past and looked at 800 times to go smoke.. i can’t do it anymore…