Experience with antenatal care and hospital choice

After a long read online and loads of bad reviews about Queen Elizabeth Hospital, I decided to go ahead with Lewisham Hospital instead and I’ve been really disappointed so far.
My midwife appointments are at Lee Health Centre. I haven’t seen the same person twice; my appointment today was 30min late and then I was rushed through feeling uncomfortable to ask any questions. For my 20 week scan in Lewisham hospital one of screens was broken so I ended up not seeing anything myself and the person doing the scan was quiet, made me feel uncomfortable because baby was not cooperating so he was losing patience trying to see details.
Is this a normal experience on NHS or am I unlucky? Would I be better off switching hospitals? I’m on week 24 so have time to reconsider. What would you recommend? I’m based around Blackheath village and we have a car so we are able to travel further out as well..as long as I feel like I do have some more support as currently it just feels rough.

in our community

normal or infected?

5 weeks post c section , i went at the beginning of the week as my wound had opened completely different area to what’s leaking. was told it didn’t look infected. anyone know if this is normal coming off it, it’s only a little amount at a time

Finding out gender

Has anyone found out the gender at a private scan at 14 weeks? And has this been accurate?

I found out at 17 with my first but I know a scan place that offers from 14/15 weeks and I’m impatient 😂🥲

Induction?

Anyone been induced before? Was it more painful? Better than thought? Worse than thought? Worth it? Thoughts?

Baby names

My daughter‘s name is valentýna and I’m struggling to find other nice girl and boy names beginning with V I’ve got a few and I’ve got loads that aren’t beginning with V, but I feel like I wanna go for all vs and I also love girl and boys names that match so because my daughter’s name is valentýna I would love to call my son Valentino my husband does not agree 😃

Induction or c section?

As a last resort, would you rather be induced or have a planned c section?

Really not liking the thought of being induced from people’s experiences I’ve read!

I am so done with pregnancy !

Everything i do hurt . I sit down / i stand up / i walk / i lie down. I am in pain ! I am tired ! His mouvement hurt down there like electricity chock ! My back is on fire ! If i walk more then 5 minutes i feel like i am going to die ( low ferritine) the acid reflux is crazy . I mean i can’t and don’t wanna do this no more . Only 31 weeks !