Mother in law wanting to babysit my 1yr old for the day
Am I in the wrong for not wanting my mother in law to look after my 1yr old after she threatened to take full custody of her before she was born, threatened my husband and myself as well as let her husband blame me for our second child's death, sorry forgot to put in that we have no choice to have them in the picture because we have social services in the picture due some wrong phone calls and since I don't have any contact with family really we have to have them in the picture but all they do are maybe family dinners and visits but mil is wanting to take my daughter out for the day and I said no to hubby
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Absolutely not! You are definitely not in the wrong there! When I was living in Florida with my best friend she let her parents in Illinois have him for a week to visit with him but she had to be at work (hence coming back to Florida). Her mom said she was gonna keep him and fight for custody. We called my mom and she drove 3 hours to get him and they refused to open the door. Cops were called and her mom said that she never said that. Long story short, if you don’t trust it, then trust your gut and say no. It takes one crazy person to actually keep their grand baby and fight their own son/daughter for custody when there is nothing wrong at home.
Nope she would never being seeing my baby again until she got therapy
What in the- no girl you not wrong at all. That’s your baby not hers lol you take care of the baby you make decisions for baby especially since she is a “baby” . Not granny she gonna be okay lol.
Ummm absolutely no chance i would let that woman babysit if your husband still sees her she can see the kids while hes present
exactly what I told hubby I said to I'm ok if one of us is there with her but not on her own
Hubby would rather cut them out but until social services are out of the picture we sadly can't cut them out
yeah i kinda feel like i spoke without context too lol 😅
social services are useless and don't actually take children that need to be taken I've already tried and they did nothing but I only did it because my younger cousins are not safe with their mother and her partner
None of my family are involved with my daughter or myself because they let me be sexually abused and did nothing about it my mother is involved because I'm not going through court or risking my daughter being taken for no reason again but my mother has supervised visits with me there noting else because I don't trust her to let my daughter be sexually abused or raped like she did with me
Oh hell no. You’re not going to be with my child unsupervised after that.
I tried to tell that to hubby but it ended up it a heated almost argument and I hate fighting because of all this horrible shit my mother and sister have done to as well as his parents
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