Mum Guilt/Exhaustion

Please tell me this isn’t just me…

Does anyone else get so exhausted that everything just feels like a routine and you’re a robot and you don’t properly see your baby?

Like they’re there in front of you but you sort of zone out just trying to stay awake and get from one task to the next, walking around like a zombie?

Then all of a sudden it’s like you wake up and look at your baby who gives you a smile and it’s like oh shit I’ve been sat here feeding you for 20 minutes and haven’t actually engaged with you at all.

I’m feeling so guilty

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Totally we are doing an amazing job learning to keep a new human alive, literally survival! And ourselves. It’s ok not to be happy smiley all the time x 😊

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This!!! I have to remind myself to just be in the moment and enjoy it. You've got this mama 💕🙌

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The last paragraph made my laugh cos I relate, or when you’re breastfeeding at 3am trying not to lose sleep and she’s looking up at me but I’m stuck between engaging or not so as not to make her think it’s time to play

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